Do you find yourself missing out on opportunities, filling your mind with negative talk and shrinking in the corners in public situations because of your lack of confidence? Reminding ourselves of our best positive qualities on a daily, and literally sometimes hourly basis is one of the fastest ways to develop a positive self-image and learn to love and accept yourself.
We tend to constantly look at our peers, friends, celebrities etc and obsess on what they have that we don’t. When we do this it’s like telling the universe we are not happy with what you’ve given us. I can imagine God thinking …”we’ll if you’re not happy with A-Z why should I give you more blessings to ignore?”. Wouldn’t you agree? It’s taken me years of self development to walk in a room and not give a rats as# about being best looking, not having the latest Chanel bag, not being the skinniest …and not being the most successful when it comes today’s standards of driving a Tesla and owning a million dollar home. I mean hello! I live in LA, there is always someone sexier, richer, has better handbags. Ha!
Oh..the benefits of being over 40! No really, it’s pretty awesome. You really start to align with what’s important; you’re a confident soul who knows their value and has special gifts to share with the world. Duh.
Here are examples of positive qualities;
- Adaptable
- Adventurous
- Affectionate
- Ambitious
- Artistic
- Assertive
- Broad-minded
- Capable
- Caring
- Charming
- Cheerful
- Clear-headed
- Clever
- Compassionate
- Competent
- Confident
- Conscientious
- Considerate
- Courageous
- Creative
- Dependable
- Determined
- Devoted
- Dynamic
- Easy-going
- Efficient
- Energetic
- Entrepreneurial
- Enthusiastic
- Fair
- Faithful
- Flexible
- Friendly
- Funny
- Generous
- Gentle
- Glad
- Good-natured
- Happy
- Helpful
- Honest
- Hopeful
- Humble
- Inspiring
- Imaginative
- Independent
- Industrious
- Intelligent
- Inventive
- Kind
- Logical
- Lovable
- Mature
- Modest
- Natural
- Neat
- Non-judgmental
- Nurturing
- Open-minded
- Optimistic
- Organized
- Original
- Outgoing
- Patient
- Peaceful
- Persevering
- Persistent
- Pleasant
- Polite
- Positive
- Precise
- Progressive
- Punctual
- Realistic
- Reasonable
- Reflective
- Relaxed
- Reliable
The next time you get discouraged, feel judged and are focusing on what your lacking remember you’re one-on-kind with special traits. Walk into the room with your held high! I walk in with confidence knowing and being confident in what I do posses; a great personality, a creative personal style, life experience & tools to help others, the ability to make anyone feel better about themself and to make people laugh. With practice, I know you can too. I’m almost positive take anyone would take those qualities and the ones listed over anything “on the surface” any day. Am I right? If you need to work on this part of yourself write them down and have them handy. When you continuously focus on the positive it leaves little room for the negative. If you need more Style Coaching…you always know I’m here for y
